Flaneur Pocket Guide Advert 630

So, I accidentally wrote a new book – “A Pocket Guide For The Flaneur of Life”.

As you may be aware, alongside the NLP training and coaching that I do, I also focus on mindfulness and, with nearly 20 years experience in meditation, I am an advocate and activist for the “Slow Movement”.

I have been working on an update to my Mindfulness Meditation Guide and Business Guide for for NLPers when inspiration struck and I wrote this book instead!

What Is A Flaneur of Life?

Flaneur is a French term from 19th century Paris that describe the act of strolling. A Flaneur was a lady or gentlemen who took to casually strolling the streets of the city, the idler, the urban explorer, the connoisseur of the street. They would walk for the sake of walking, enjoying the journey.

A “Flaneur of Life” recognises that life is journey and would rather take a more casual approach, than rushing around and getting all flustered. They appreciate the journey as much as the destination.

In this little pocket guide you will get little gems of wisdom to help you slow your life down and turn it into a stroll rather than a sprint.

It includes ways that you can become:

  • Calm and collected.
  • Mindful and aware.
  • Able to chat to anyone about anything.
  • Unburdened (with thoughts, actions and possession!).
  • Unhurried and unflustered.
  • Well dressed (not fashionable, but stylish).
  • Able to carry yourself with grace and elegance.
  • With slow deliberate movements.
  • Unflustered and unhurried.

Get it now in paperback and on Kindle at Amazon:

UK here

US here

Can You Help Me?

Do you have a blog, website or podcast or just like writing reviews? I would be more than happy to email you a PDF review copy, do an interview or guest post/article, please contact me here to discuss it more.

If you have any questions, please let me know.

Meta Model Demystified

The Meta Model Demystified 2nd Edition Available NOW – Over 80 Pages of New Material

Brand new and thoroughly revised the Meta Model Demystified is available now from Amazon on Kindle and, for the first time, in paperback.

The Meta Model Demystified thoroughly updates the language patterns and explains how to use the Meta Model to create seemingly magical change simply and easily.

This expanded and completely revised 2nd edition includes:

  • The key concepts that lead to the development of the Meta Model.
  • A totally reconfigured explanation of the classic language patterns.
  • Examples of using the Meta Model in various contexts.
  • Sample questions.
  • Hints and tips to master the Meta Model.

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Nested Loops Demystfied

I am proud to announce the release of the next book in my NLP Demystified Series:

Nested Loops Demystified: Revealing the Art of Multilevel Communication and Unconscious Instillation in NLP

This book draws together all my research and experience with Nested Loops over the last 10 years. Nested Loops and “unconscious instillation” have grown to almost mythical status in NLP. In reality, Nested Loops are very simple (although, not easy) and exceptionally powerful way to deliver large amounts of information in a very short space of time, without your trainees feeling that they have to try hard.

Why Did I Choose Nested Loops?

Well, some of the most common areas of NLP I get asked about are Nested Loops, Multilevel Communication and Unconscious Instillation (NOT Installation – this is an important distinction).

I did some digging and realised that there is very little information available about these three subjects, and most of what is (freely) available on the internet is simply wrong (every single clip on YouTube that claims to tell you about Nested Loops are incorrect).

So, I thought it was about time someone cleared up the confusion (or demystified it…!).

In reality, Nested Loops are very simple. This simplicity is deceptive, because Nested Loops are powerful, it is why Richard Bandler and his trainers can pack so much information into a 7 day training, information that it takes other people much longer to teach.

The aim of this book is to cut through the myths and misunderstandings to give you a simply way to start using Nested Loops and multilevel communication straight away. I have taken a lot of time and effort researching and practicing Nested Loops and now present my findings to you in the hope that it can teach you the skills and ability to use them yourself.

Do you want to develop engaging and powerful presentations, working shops and training course? That will teach large amounts of information in a very short space of time easily and effortlessly? This book reveals the art Nested Loops, Multilevel Communication and Unconscious Instillation in NLP.

This book is a clear and concise explanation of how to design and utilise Nested Loops including:

  • What Nested Loops are (and what they aren’t!).
  • What their purpose is.
  • How and where to use to use them.
  • How to develop Nested Loops.
  • Keys to designing an effective training with Nested Loops.
  • How to tell good stories.

PLEASE NOTE: This book assumes and basic and general understanding of Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP).

You can buy it now from Amazon on Kindle and paperback.

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Can You Help Me?

I am currently giving out pdf review copies of the book, if you are happy to write (an honest) review for Amazon or your blog/facebook/twitter or mailing list (or preferably all of them!) please contact me to arrange being sent a copy.

PLEASE NOTE: This is not just a ‘free’ copy of the book! I am giving it to you in exchange for a (fair and honest) review. If you don’t want to or aren’t able to review it please don’t ask for a copy.

I hope you enjoy it and find it useful, please feel free to give me feedback and comments here.